Sunday, January 29, 2023

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I have in my possession some extraordinary documents. Most of our efforts as genealogists center around locating records of birth, marriage and, death. But these are personal milestones: university diplomas.

But what makes diplomas extraordinary is not just the date--though it places them in a societal context--but also the names: my grandaunt Ella Richardson, and my mother, Madge. Both women, at a time when women did not typically earn degrees.

Ella and her sister Florence both attended Carleton College in Northfield, Minnesota, which was just a few blocks from the family home. Ella earned a BA and graduated in 1906. Seated one person away in the front row of the class picture is her sister Florence; behind them are Ella's future husband Bernard Street and his brother Claude; the four were the subjects of a double wedding the following year. In the Carletonian's senior number (edited by none other than Florence and Claude), the class picture is flanked by portraits of the valedictorian and salutatorian; Ella is the valedictorian. 

Ella went on to become a schoolteacher of German and History--until of course, she had their first child. In 1918, when she was six months pregnant with their fifth, her world fell apart when her husband was killed in a hunting accident. The family rallied around her, and she spent the next couple of years regrouping in her parent's new home in Sutherlin, Oregon. She eventually returned to Minnesota, where she lived out her days and is now buried near her dear family.

At a time when women might begin college, only to drop out once they had earned an "M.R.S." degree (witnessed by the number of wedding invitations from sorority sisters pasted in her junior year scrapbook), Madge bucked the trend. After having finished her Bachelor's in Dramatic literature from the University of California Berkeley in the early 1950s, she asked her father for support to pursue a graduate degree. He agreed, on one condition: that she prove she could support herself for a year. I recall her dexterous fingers on the typewriter (later the computer keyboard), and she told me she had had a lot of practice. She had met her father's requirement by working for a year as a secretary for Del Monte (the canned tomato folks). Satisfied, he paid for her graduate degree, this time in anthropology with a focus on ancient Egypt. Her thesis sat on a shelf next to a fat book on Hieroglyph Grammar in my childhood home. 

I keep family documents on the shelf in my office. On the wall near them hang three diplomas with my own name on them. The roots in my tree are thick with extraordinary women, and I have the documents to prove it.



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